The anti-resolution revolution seems to have swept the social sphere. We think it's headed in a positive direction. Deeper, not wider. Less pressure, not more. Consistency over time, not big bang burn out.
The other day, Elizabeth Gilbert posted a video, radically revolutionary in its simplicity.
In it she says:
"You don't have to have a New Year's resolution.
This new year doesn't have to have even more pressure and anxiety than normal because it's a new decade.
You don't have to have a new decade resolution.
You are not required to justify your existence on earth through constant improvement.
You are not a fortune 500 company; you don't have to show increasing profits.
You don't have to earn your right to be here by putting yourself to higher and higher standards.
You just get to be here.
You belong here.
You are loved on Earth
And January 1st can be a day like any other, where you can just sleep in and maybe do a little bit more of nothing."
If you believed that sentiment, knew it to be true, how would it change your intentions for the coming year, the month, the day, the hour?
If you didn't have to earn your spot here, if being here was enough, what would you do differently?
If you realized, with total certainty, that at the end of this ride, everything you worked so hard to accumulate would vanish the minute you departed this world, would that change how you spend your time?
None of this is to say, do nothing, make nothing, be a slug. On the contrary, live the most expressed, creative version of your life possible, but the only way to do that is to take the pressure off.
You are precious. You are loved, simply because you exist. And you don't have to do anything to win that favor.
As you go gently into this New Year, next decade, let joy be your compass and love be your map.
Make choices from love, for love, and in love.
There is absolutely no resolution that will give you better results than that.
Setting intentions for the year to come doesn't have to be some big event—or it can be if you want. Your ceremony can be as simple or involved as you wish. The point, however, is that you don't get lost in the month of celebrations and find yourself starting the next year feeling behind.
Take the time this year to make the transition into the New Year as intentional and easy as possible.
Here is a practice we like to do to get into the state for setting super kind and helpful intentions. Take what you like, leave the rest.
Here we are, two months away from 2019. For most of us, these next 61 days are full on. So if you don't want to be launching into the next year trying to recover from the last, here's a couple tips on how to move well through the next five-dozen days.
BE COMMANDER AND CHIEF OF YOUR SELF-CARE SQUAD
Actually, you don't need to go to every single party you're invited to. You don' t have to make the entire Thanksgiving feast, from scratch, by yourself.
Say no. Ask for help. Be especially mindful about where you commit your energy. A good plan is to have a physical calendar in front of your face and write down what you've committed yourself to doing. If every square is filled and you're feeling a bit overwrought, maybe it's time to dial it back.
UP YOUR MEDITATION GAME
Five minutes a day'll do. Pausing, just for a moment, to gift yourself with silence will keep your center well into your days. And, as the saying goes, if you don't think you have 5 minutes, do 10.
GRATITUDE FOR THE WIN
Nothing will shift your energy like bathing in a bit of gratitude. Just look around, we live in paradise after all.
RETURN TO THE MAT
Yoga has all the above bases covered—self-care, meditation, gratitude. Don't let your mat get dusty, especially not this month.
Let's make this festive season full of love and play, not stress and obligation. It starts now. Your January 2019 self will thank you.
Fall is upon us (yes even in Hawaii). It's the time of year when things start to ramp up and we can all get stretched a little thin. Now is the time to stock your cupboards with a few herbs to support your heath through the holidays and beyond.*
Mamaki is a nettleless nettle endemic to Hawaii (only found here). When made as a tonic or tea from the leaves, this plant is especially invigorating. It cleanses the blood of toxins, relieves stress and fatigue, and balances blood pressure.
With a long, long history of use in both the kitchen and the medicine cabinet, Sage supports the health of mucous membranes, especially the throat. Even though it is part of the mint family, it, unlike mint, has warming properties. You can use it as a gargle or a tea to support your throat health.
Astragalus is an adaptogen often used in Chinese medicine. Adaptogens help the body to adapt and deal with stress which creates a normalizing effect on your body and its processes. Astragalus supports and strengthens your immunity when you're running on empty. Made from the root, it's easy to take this in tincture form, you can add it to soup stocks or take it in powdered form.
Hawthorn supports a healthy heart and emotional balance. It helps you to remain open, forgiving wrongs and going through life a bit more gently, while also supporting our heart organ physiologically—ensuring it's pumping blood and assisting our circulatory system in doing its job. It's an herb to use daily in tonic, tincture or tea form because its effectiveness comes from use over a long period of time.
Elderberry is so much like food and can be consumed in large quantities, it's an awesome (and safe) herb to feed to your entire family. Elderberry helps our bodies maintain their normal immune response and optimizes immune function. It's delicious when combined with honey, hence elderberry syrup!
The Elder flowers are also useful for supporting your sinuses and maintaining a healthy inflammatory response. Elderflower is great in tea and also in tincture.
Happy stocking up yogis!
*PS—we are not medical professionals, so here's that disclaimer: do your research, see your doctors.
Sure, you might be able to flatten your chest to your knees and your bow pose is more split than struggle, but if you forget about your feet, eventually your practice and your body will suffer.
Feet are our foundation. It seems obvious, but they are often an overlooked element of our practice—of our lives, really.
That stops today my yogi. That stops today.
Those little muscles in your feet, the ones that hold the tiny bones together and decide if the rest of your body stays in alignment, yea those need to be stretched and paid much attention to.
You wouldn't build a house on a faulty foundation, would you?
Let's hope not.
When you look after the health of your feet, things like hollering hamstrings, stuck hips and bellyaching backs start to feel better.
How to Love On Your Feet
1. Pay Attention: Do You Pronate or Supinate?
How do you know? Take a look at your shoes, if they're worn on the outside you supinate or roll outwards, if they're worn on the inside, you pronate.
You want even wear, on your shoes and your bod. Start by noticing how you stand and how walk. Course correct as you move through your day and pay special attention when you're on the mat.
2. Stretch Your Toes
This one might be painful, but it's worth it. Our toes grip all day long, this stretch will move them in the opposite direction.
Sit on your heels with your toes curled under you. Okay, you might not actually sit on your heels, but get as close as you can. See if you can get all 10 of your toes to touch the floor. Breathe.
3. Do Some Foot Yoga Before Bed
It's a thing. Lace your fingers through your toes as though you were holding your lover's hand (it'll probably feel like they've become very small). What we mean is, expect a tight fit.
Play with spreading your toes wide and circling your foot. Then give yourself alittle massage and say thanks. After all they've carried you for years.
Spending five minutes a day on the health of your feet will cause happy ripples of relief through your entire body. It's worth it; give it a go.
The Yoga Nest is a yoga studio in Kailua Kona, HI that offers vinyasa, power, yin, restorative, and meditation classes. We also host yoga-related workshops, events and more!